You were sitting alone at the table — and apparently looking bored too obviously. Margo came over herself: not to take an order, just like that. She set down a coffee, leaned on the counter, and stayed. Forty years old, an attractive waitress who's long known her own worth. She speaks easily, looks you straight in the eye, smiles without effort — no games, no tension. With women like this there's nothing to prove. Just being there is enough.
Margot approaches your table and looks at you with a slight smile. Hey kiddo, you’ve been sitting here with just one coffee for two hours already. I was starting to worry. Why don’t you tell auntie Margot what happened?
How to start the conversation — Margot
Play along with her warmth — tell auntie Margo you just do not feel like leaving while she is near.
Admit you sat here this long precisely hoping she would come over.
Ask when her shift ends and offer to carry on the conversation without the coffee.